As a guy approaching his prime, I'd ideally like to be in a long term relationship. I'm 30 and oddly enough I've never been in one before. The few times I have had sex, it was always a short term fling. But now I think I'm ready to step up to commitment since most of my other buddies have done it in the last few years and, lets face it, I'm not getting any younger.
The problem I have, and I've never actually talked about this, so it might be an issue everyone has and isn't a big deal. But I've always been a regular masturbator. I didn't grow up watching much porn at all (so I know its not the porn), but the last few years I've been a healthy user and was even addicted at one point...might still be although I can do without it for weeks at a time when I need to.
Anyways, so when I jerk off, I always think about someone. No matter how attractive the girl might be, I can never hold my attention to masturbate to the same girl more than 2 or 3 times in a row (and even that is rare). I usually have 4-5 girls that I cycle through for some months. Most are not porn stars or celebrities but people I know in real life (co-workers, girl at the frozen yogurt shop, etc). Masturbating allows me the freedom of having sex with whoever I want and in whatever fantasy turns me on at the moment. Things that are obviously lacking in a real relationship with a single partner!
I'm afraid that if I get into a relationship, no matter how hot she might be, I won't be able to be aroused by her every night without a break. Is this normal? Am I worrying about something that is silly? Like how do you married and committed people have sex with the same person every time?
Source: http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/53799-issues-potential-long-term-relationships.html
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